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THIS WEEK: Levels of Growth & Changing Relationships
I have come to the realization that I may not have emphasized enough
an importance aspect of growth: that
ALL YOU LEARN YOU MUST SHARE.
What good does it do to attempt growth when all aound you remain the same.
It is the surest way to fall back into previous habits & behaviors.
Habits & behaviors that you wanted to replace by growing.
When your growth creates a better life for you,
you must want the same for others in your life.
We are most comfortable with the familiar & with people on the same level.
In high school football players don't date wallflowers, their levels are too different.
Bookworms/geeks don't date cheerleaders for the same reason.
The wealthy business woman doesn't run in the same circles as the waiter &
the plumber isn't in the same crowd as an attorney.
Healthy people need to associate with healthy people.
As you grow & change one of three events will occur.
As you grow & share your new healthy behaviors some friends will grow with you.
don't change with you
2 & 3
s/he will try to pull you back to her/his level.
"You don't need to study now. Let's go to the mall". or
"Forget the budget -
it looks good on you". or "One cigarette
won't hurt you."
2 & 3
You will also meet new people who share
your new behaviors & interests & you will develop new relationships.
It's not as complicated as I've made it look.
It is very real though.
There will be loss.
Some people that you care about may not want or be able to change.
There are 3 possible outcomes:
You will either go back to your previous ways & keep them in your life or
Drop them from you life & continue on your new path.
When you continue on you'll will nurture the old friends who join you in that new path & develop new ones to fill out your new circle of support.
It's your life, you get to choose.
I'll take a break on July 4th & be back with a new Elevator July 11th. Marta
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